What To Do When You Feel Like Giving Up?

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Hai =) Pernah tak you guys rasa macam hilang arah tuju, rasa macam dah jalan jauhhhhhh sangat, tiba-tiba things do not occur as planned, and you don't know where to go? Or rasa macam dah buat satu keputusan yang changed your life once upon a time but all of sudden everything that happens today, like EVERYTHING, are mistakes?

Aku pernah.

So how do I get back up from challenges? Frankly, it was never easy.  Aku pernah back off from chasing my dreams for more than 2 months. I stopped doing the things I always love to do. I stopped dreaming. Simply said, I gave up. And what was the result? My life was getting worse day by day. It was not about money.. it was about my satisfaction towards my own life. I started to look at things negatively. Semua benda jadi 'tak betul' kat mata aku. And then by the end of the day sebelum aku lelapkan mata untuk tidur, I regretted many things through out the day. Horrible sangat feeling tu. Rasa loser. Rasa useless..macam lagi teruk dari sampah masyarakat. Huhu. Tu la yang aku rasa bila aku berhenti bermimpi.

But.. what I love the most about facing challenges is, I can get closer to Allah.  Selalunya waktu senang, waktu kita tak ada masalah, waktu semua benda macam best je, macam simple je, macam smooth je, memang lah boleh je nak bangun malam for tahajjud, tapi untuk titiskan air mata waktu solat dan waktu berdoa, susah sangat kan? Kadang-kadang kena buat-buat nangis sebab teringin sangat nak menangis kat depan Allah. Tapi bila hidup kita sedang betul-betul mencabar, semua benda kita buat tak menjadi, paling best bila solat tu menjijis-jijis air mata...berjurai-jurai. Sejadah pun basah.

So, bersyukur lah saat kita senang, bertambahlah bersyukur saat kita diuji. Banyak sangat pahala bila menangis sungguh-sungguh kat Allah :')

ISTIKHARAH.

Saat aku tak tahu mana nak pergi, tak tahu apa nak buat, istikharah selalunya jadi jalan keluar untuk aku. Ada je tiba-tiba petunjuk yang Allah bagi..aku tak pernah dapat dalam mimpi. Tapi lepas istikharah, aku tawakkal, lepas tu mesti aku nampak satu per satu jalan..jalan keluar dari kesulitan.. semangat yang hilang tiba-tiba datang balik..powerful sangat istikharah ni.. you guys try la =)

READ INSPIRATIONAL BOOK.
Waktu aku rasa lost, waktu aku rasa semua benda macam salah, waktu tu lah aku paling banyak membaca. Do productive things in unproductive time..maksudnya, waktu-waktu yang tak productive kita should do something productive such as reading books, Quran, etc =)

Antara petunjuk yang aku dapat lepas aku solat istikharah..kat instagram je..mashaAllah, Allahuakbar!!

100 failures means thousandssss of success!! It is OK if we fail. But it is NOT OK if we let ourselves think that we are losers. Never treat yourself like a failure. You might want to take some time off, but never allow our mind to think negatively about our own self. That is totally gonna be a disaster. Avoid that. Always love ourselves no matter what..admit mistakes, correct them, and improve..

Suamiku Di Philipine

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Harini, 3 June 2014, jam 8.17pm di saat aku baru mula nak membebel kat blog ni, genap sudah 3 malam aku tak tidur sekatil dengan suamiku. Hahah. Bukan sebab gadoh. Tapi sebab suamiku keluar berjihad ke Philipine..First time in our 3 years of marriage kami berpisah lama macam ni. Sebelum ni paling lama x jumpa pun 2 malam je.. Baru aku faham pengorbanan isteri kepada pejuang-pejuang agama yang selalu keluar berbulan-bulan lamanya. Tabahnya hati diorang :') Ada lagi 9 malam untuk aku survive without my husband. Terpaksalah aku peluk si Yassir je kuat-kuat before tidur. Kahkahkah. Pengganti sementara.

Semalam husband aku update status ni:

Adoi. Confirm la aku yang baca ni sedih. Huhu. Tambah pulak ada entry baru kat blog my husband..

http://diariyassir.blogspot.com/2014/05/hari-pertama-filipina.html

It is actually a business trip to Philipine. Total 12 hari la suamiku dan kawan-kawan herbalife kami yang lain bermusafir..belajar tentang system kelab nutrisi yang digunakan oleh Herbalife distributors di Philipine which has helped many of the distributors moved up to the next level in the marketing plan in only few years after the system being implemented. MashaAllah. Never stop learning, that's what successful people do. So we decided to go there and learn how to grow our business stronger using the nutrition club system.

Frankly memang bukan senang untuk aku setuju dengan pemergian abang ke sana. Because dalam keadaan aku yang sedang diuji dengan ujian kesihatan yang tak menentu sekarang, it's actually very hard for me to take over all the business activities by myself here without him. It's been 2 months since aku "cuti bergaji" hehe. 

So what's nutrition club? It's a place where people who loves good nutrition gather, having fun, being loved, sharing positive energy together..nanti aku buat satu entry khas untuk share pasal nutrition club ok? =)

Pengalaman kali ni membuatkan aku bertambah rasa bersyukur setiap pagi bila bangun tidur...sebab aku hanya perlu tinggal berjauhan dengan suami aku for 12 days. Masa ni la aku teringat kat kawan-kawan aku yang memang in long distance marriage. Betul-betul Allah kurniakan diorang semua hati yang kental. Bukan senang.. mashaAllah. Indeed, Allah takkan uji hamba-NYA dengan ujian yang tak mampu dipikul.

Doakan la aku kuat nak melalui lagi 9 hari tanpa suamiku di sisi. Huk huk. Baru je selesai calling2 dengan my husband using Facebook call. Its free! First time guna hehe. Alhamdulillah lepas rindu...ok dear readers, Yassir dah lending kt aku ni ha...ajak tidur. So, that means, I should...sleep! Heheh till then, bye! Assalamualaikum lovely people <3

Welcome To My New Blog :)

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Hai semua =)

Yep, it's my new blog. I have to close my previous blog www.atieyus.com due to safety reasons..tak sanggup nak delete sebab blog tu aku dah mula tulis sejak tahun 2008. Which is dah nak masuk usia 7 tahun dah. Tapi demi menjaga kemaslahatan bersama, aku tutup blog tu daripada public.. tak perlu lah tanya detail kenapa ek ;)

Anyway, harini terasa nak share tentang event paling best dalam bulan May 2014..alang-alang dah depan laptop ni, jom membebel jap hehe.

Singapore Extravaganza 2014 16-18 May 2014.

It's a business trip..kami ke Singapore untuk belajar lagi dan lagi bagaimana untuk menjadi better person, better coach, better Herbalife distributor, bersama-sama 22000 orang distributor yang lain dari seluruh Asia Pacific (except India because they have their own Extravaganza due to big number of distributors joining from their country).

Kali pertama kami menjadi "travel agent" untuk team kami sendiri. Pengurusan bas, hotel, semuanya kami handle sendiri, dan team kami bayar pakej masing-masing kepada kami je. Memang mencabar.. But we really learn a lot from the experience, alhamdulillah!! =)

This was my 4th Extravaganza and my husband's 5th Extravaganza..kali ni Extravaganza agak berbeza, sebab Herbalife launched #Herbalife24 dan #HerbalifeSKIN7..

What's #herbalife24?
It's a brand for healthy active lifestyle with Herbalife.Herbalife really wants to promote people to stay healthy, and active with nutrition and also active lifestyle. Because the rule is always 20% exercise 80% nutrition. Selama ni we as coaches pun selalu fikir cukup dah kami jaga 80% bab pemakanan dengan nutrisi seimbang terbaik didunia..tapi masih ramai yang tak mengamalkan 20% rule of exercising. Yela, kita masih rasa macam sihat walaupun tak exercise kan? Tapi kita tak perasan yang badan kita ni melalui proses penuaan since the age of 25.So we need to practice healthy ageing routine from now..(nasihatkan diri sendiri hehe).

So, what's #herbalifeskin7?

It's a new evolution of skin care products. Sekarang dah tak perlu susah payah guna different brand of skin care products utk muka kita masing-masing.because Herbalife has it ALL!! Dari cleanser,toner,scrub, eye gel,moisturizer, night cream,mask, line minimizing serum..

Yang bestnya Herbalife SKIN ni, on every product siap stated number..indicating the step by step way to use them =) ANDDDDDD...result is GUARANTEED in just 7 days!!!!

Seriously Herbalife tak pernah claim products boleh dpt result in 7 days...this is the first!!! So jangan lepaskan peluang untuk memiliki your own set of SKIN today!! =) SKIN is dermatologist tested..so inshaAllah it's suitable for all skin type.Tak sabarrrrr nak pakai SKIN =)

**kepada yang sedang menjalankan terapi dengan doktor, boleh rujuk doktor anda dulu ye.

#healthyactivelifestylewithherbalife
#iwanttobeahealthyprettymama

Bai!! Thank you for reading =)